July 11, 2017

Q&A: How Duke Football’s Derek Jones wins the game of social media

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We huddled with Duke Football assistant coach Derek Jones. With over 29,000 followers on Twitter, @DukeCoachDJ shares his 140-character advice with student-athletes and coaches around the globe. Learn how he uses social media to inspire his followers and to decide which new players to recruit. Here’s a taste: “The way you present yourself [on social media] speaks volumes.”

May 31, 2017

3 conversations to have with your child about social media before summer break

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Huddles: That’s what we call short one-on-one conversations between parents and kids about ways to win at social. With lots of summertime social media free time ahead☀️⏱☀️, it’s a good idea to talk with your child about how to use it best. Huddle up!

May 23, 2017

Why parents should ask permission to post photos of their child on social media

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If you’re the parent of a middle- or high-schooler in 2017, there’s a good chance that your mom didn’t share baby photos of you on social media. A college recruiter can’t Google your name and see your eighth-grade graduation pics. Your potential boss can’t come across your naked toddler self in the bath tub. So, ask your child’s permission when they’re old enough, and use it as a chance to reinforce high standards.

May 17, 2017

When other families are less strict about technology

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What should you do when your child wants to play at a friend’s house where the technology rules are less stringent? Where he’ll have access to more screen time, a cell phone, or video games — things that are not allowed at your home? The answer requires some hard work for parents. And, as always, we’re here to help.  

May 11, 2017

Why parents should sign a technology contract, too

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It’s time to turn the traditional technology contract on its head. No more “I will not” this and “I will not” that. No more lone child signatures at the bottom. Families, it’s time to agree to work together to live up to high social standards together with a family tech contract.

May 11, 2017

Fight cyberbullying with cyberbacking: Back each other up

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Witnesses to cyberbullying far outnumber the victims and the bullies, combined. When they back up the people who are bullied — when their positive voices overpower the mean words, embarrassing photos, intentional exclusions — good things happen. We call it cyberbacking

May 4, 2017

What teens tweet about “13 Reasons Why” may surprise you

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Press coverage about the new Netflix show is dying down, but teens are still talking about it. This is what they’re saying. It may surprise you. 

April 28, 2017

A mother and daughter talk about watching #13ReasonsWhy together

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“My dad always says to choose the hard right over the easy wrong, and no one did that in this show,” says Emily, a high school senior who asked her mom to watch “13 Reasons Why” with her. How do they recommend other parents and teens approach this controversial series? With open minds and as many conversations as necessary.

April 26, 2017

Social media monitoring tools: Why not to spy

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We get it — you want to know what your child is doing online, which apps they’re downloading, who they are talking to, and how many hours they’re playing Pokemon Go. But using spyware to keep tabs is exhausting for you and invasive for them. It’s also, in the long run, not as effective as having regular conversations about social and digital. We call it huddling.

April 21, 2017

This 13-word sentence is the key to avoiding a real-life #13ReasonsWhy

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This show has got everybody talking and almost as many people watching it. Are you one of the millions of parents who are a little freaked out and wondering what to do? We have a 13-word answer. Yeah, we know: clever.

April 19, 2017

How to monitor what your child can purchase and download

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Whether your family uses Apple or Android devices, there are ways to control and monitor the apps and other downloads your child buys. One requires more vigilance than the other, but they’re BOTH better than nothing. Because come on. It’s your 💰💰💰 after all.

April 1, 2017

Should you follow your child on Instagram?

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Parents ask us this question a lot, and we have an answer. Here’s a hint: It’s one word and it rhymes with 👗.

March 17, 2017

Why kids think you should respond to their texts RIGHT NOW, and how to change that

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Kids learn to expect an immediate response when texting with their parents, and they learn it from someone they watch very closely. #whocoulditbe 

March 14, 2017

Q&A: How 17-year-old Akshay Lulla wins the game of social media

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Ever wonder how 17-year-olds are using social media? Here’s one example. (👍 🙏 Akshay!) #spoileralert “I wish they understood that it can be productive. You can do good things on social media! It’s not all a waste of time.”

March 13, 2017

A strong email password keeps your social accounts safer, too

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“Two-factor authentication” sounds suuuuuper dull. (We almost fell asleep while typing that sentence.) But it could mean the difference between being hacked on social media and not being hacked.